Let Bygones Be Bygones

Night might be different for everyone

For philosophy to muse,

For writer to metaphor their life,

For mother to sing a lullaby,

For worker to fight for better tomorrow,

For drunker to forget their day,

For one to be strong after a long day,

For one to confess their hidden feeling.

"Have courage and be kind"

No fairy tale in life,

But lesson could be learnt,

Confess to kindness,

Stay an innocent heart,

We are strong in our way. =)

Expect nothing

Love comes from different way,

Approaching under an unaware condition,

Either happy or sad,

Be thankful it does come to you in the end of the day.

Photograph says no more

Photo is just another story teller,

Brought you back to the old days,

Some might be sweet,

Some might be hurt to see,

But let bygones be bygones.

Sunrise after the night

There is always a sunrise after the night,

A rainbow after the storm,

Everything will be alright at the end,

Life will back into track after a hurricane,

And stop looking for the past,

We have spent too much time on looking the past,

And we neglected that there is always a new chapter for tomorrow.

人生旅途。世界。珍惜

‘百忙中的幸运’

好幸运，

在百忙中庆幸今晚终于可以抛开一切，

纯粹就只想利用文字的能力，

来抒发自己藏在心中好多的闹剧。

‘曾经我们共同的年代’

好想知道是否有人和我一样，

在这个夜晚想起了《我的少女时代》这部剧，

那轰轰烈烈的中学时期，

那些年，我们都觉得世界是我们的，

与那些很单纯地想要去好好爱一个人的年代。

‘记载人生的旅途’

以前就很习惯把心事写进了日记，

里面记载着许多的回忆，

看看以前那个呆头呆脑的自己，

心里刺痛的却是为何当时自己不勇敢去追求。

‘雨，给予的含义’

还记得以前的你，如何看待雨天呢?

雨天是否带了了快乐，

雨天是否带了了悲伤，

还是雨天带给你了恐惧?

我相信每个人心里都有属于自己的答案。

回忆自己的过去，

是否雨天本来对你的含义有所改变？

犹如自己给予自己的思想。

‘世界可以带来寂寞’

总是嘴巴说着一个人过得很好，

却因转头望着窗外的风景，

看着外面宁静的街道，

犹如看见了自己心中的那小房子。

难免在夜晚听见了一首情歌，

那该死的脑不停地出现好多小闹剧。

‘痛了才懂得珍惜’

我们都说跌倒了才懂得痛，

才懂得学会如何保护自己，

然而也学会珍惜自己。

你是否足够勇敢，

给自己痛快地伤一次？

因为痛，才了解什么是最好的。

但，有些人因跌倒，而把自己藏起来。

‘学会感激’

不管他们是否伤害了你，

不管他们是否帮助了你，

不管他们是否曾经是你人生的过客，

但我们必须学会感激每一个人，

因为他们都是我们成长的理由。

在这篇文章的最后一段，我想给予那些曾经让我好幸福的过客们。其实还隐约记得那些年我们初次见面的自己，我是多么地紧张，甚至完全变成了一个没EQ和IQ的小男生，说起话来还带点口吃，但最回忆的却是那份亲切感，那些年天不怕地不怕的许下的海誓山盟，很抱歉也很遗憾我们都无法共同完成。我曾经很自傲自己是一个超浪漫的男生但是最有趣的是，我最自傲的其实我什么都不是，但和一个人在一起的时候，你会发觉她不会因你送她花而开心一整天，反而你的体贴，你给的安全感，她都感觉到。恋爱其实没有电视剧里那么的轰轰烈烈，其实对我来说是淡淡的，我们其实都只是想要好好地珍惜彼此。喜欢一个人，就像是你累了一整天，她的一句加油，足够让你忘掉那一切不开心的事情。其实不管男或女，我们都需要个依靠，一个可倾诉的人，一个可让你忘掉世界的人，而那，可能就是所谓的爱情吧？

Gratitude and Happiness of the Night

I am supposed to finish any of my assignments tonight but in fact I am way too busy in doing other things and it is totally distracted. This is a night to muse perhaps and finally I have something on mind to write and share. Thus, there is something I am fortunate enough to share, it's my balance. I found my balance in life.

As I mentioned in this blog, I am so eager to change and improve myself to become a perfectionist as I am trying to tell the whole world that perfect is existed. Well, if I think through this goal setting again, it was like how innocent I can be and this is hilarious. And I would said this goal setting is way too selfish but now, I have another goal, it is not only about me, but about others.

I am so grateful that I am being in love with people around me and this was the first time I think there is someone that lead me to learn how to love someone and how to love myself. I am an introvert, I seldom start any conversation, but I feel right being around my friends. Surprisingly, I am getting annoyed when it goes to someone I like and reliable. I start to send bunch of messages, try to stalk, know where are they and well, become a really psycho person.

Listening to song and writing something you are thinking now is so precious although it might took out some of the time. I am really appreciate those precious moment although I know there is something I cannot really tell here. ( Perhaps those people know what I meant)

Perhaps good things go last if you appreciate. This is a night with a lot of gratitude and happiness, I hope there is no tomorrow as I gonna live forever in this night.

-To the world, you may be one person, but to one person you are the world.-

 Bill Wilson

Lonely night, silent night.

Lonely night, silent night,

It's a night for student to struggle,

It's a night for people to think,

It's a night for people to speak.

They said, pass through a night might be super long when you're alone. The thought it might be coming out from your mind is super tortured until you insomnia, lost of emotional and even thinking the way to live for tomorrow. But well, single people I bet they are better in controlling their emotional in the night.

There's your friend but still, sometimes you might feel nothing

It's true that single people mix well with their peers but well, friendship sometimes doesn't really cover what's in your mind, heart and soul. When you are growing older, I believe you are getting harder to start a relationship with someone cause when you read more, you understand and lastly you feel more than what you are previously. It could be a reason why you are still single.

People always think that you can choose

Basically I would said people always think that single people have courtesy but well I could say majority yes as long as you're not pretty bad yet. But what stops you? Well, as I mentioned just now understanding cost your time and actually we are not fussy and for me, it might be something cannot be describe, it's like fate or something very superstition, maybe innocent sound better?

Friendship vs Relationship 
I guess both are quite important and I have no reason to say which one is better. Friendship is like your wings, it helps you to see the world whereas relationship like your shadow, he/she knows your dark side but still never leave you alone, always be there with you.

Wings might be poisonous
While wings will be like your equipment, it helps you when you need but bear in mind that choosing a wing is like choosing a horse. It couldn't be always a good horse to drive you all the way but it might be a bad horse to get you into the trouble.

You can have a lot of friends
Yes, you can have a lot, but in 100 people, mostly might just want to take the benefit from you, some might just take you for granted and how much left that you can actually share everything? Humans are designed with different personality and that's what a good creation for not being to be understandable. Lastly, how much in your so called friends list are actually the sincere one who are not being bitchy to talk about your bad behind of you where they are pretended like the kindest human being in front of you? Think about it.

Mad World

Time pass but memories stay

Was a lovely night with his friends, he got to admit that he's actually missing his ex-girlfriend and probably send her a message right after; Was a silly night when he told the one that got away about he is actually still missing her. He tired last night right after he checked on the last message from le girl. He never expect the day when he woke up, his ex actually sent him a really long message by requesting him stop texting le girl. Love is so skinny, heart is so fragile, but still tough is the motivation for you to go on. I remembered an article, they said the toughest person have the brightest smile. He do always believe that everything is alright.

Run away from your city

The long road dress with different color of cars, like a beautiful painting started from wee hour, awake in the early of the morning for their dreams. Dream might be beautiful but it might be suffocated as well. Dealing with kind sort of stress is an ability that human has been given naturally. People tend to find their own way to cope with it while they are under particular situation. For me, I wish I could escape from all the burden just for a while and walk around a place while musing.

Do not let rumors killed

You cannot avoid how people think about you. Everyone has different mindset, perception and thinking. People might think differently about you, so? We need not to explain so much as they could not even believe a single word from you. Sometimes words might be as sharp as knife but stabbing you again and again. Some people might not realize they could verbally hurt you again and again but if you care, it is going to hurt you. There is something we cannot prove sometimes, just let things go naturally. The end of the day, I strongly believe time proved the truth.

Cross the doorstep

Do not let barrier freak you away from achieving something. You could cross your doorstep and come out from your comfort zone. Learning is a difficult process and the toughest you had, the more you experienced. Life is not only a game, you might win or lose. Life is about experience, like a roller coaster, up and down, and you find the excitement inside it.

Believe

Have faith on your own cause you will know how better you can be. Believe that everything will be alright when you come to a crisis. Believe you are not alone cause you have lot of strength besides you. We are born to learn and experience the meaning of life so never give up and have faith what you're doing now.

Truth or Lie?

Life is about a journey. We don't know when is the end and when we begin with. 2014, it's actually the 21 years for me. They told me 21 is just the beginning for life. 21, you are young yet mature, you start to have the whole freedom to do some "illegal" things.

There is some truth about me is that I am wrong by saying that I am trying to stop finding any chances to love somebody else. In fact, I am trying so hard to meet someone I love and suitable. From somewhere, I read about an article started with "The Truth About Someone At The Wrong Time": "Timing is something that none of us can seem to get quite right with relationships." How would it be perfect when we met someone in the right time?

Well, someone told me, if we couldn't get the star, go for the moon, if we couldn't get the chance, make yourself a chance. By the way, I am not talking about how desperate I can be but I just want to share about meeting someone right is rarely hard.

Some might met a right person in first sight, some might not. Some might met a right person with an incident like an event? Well, there's a lot of chances to meet a right person. There is so many populations in this world and I am sure you met at least 100+ strangers a day but frankly to say I am still single.

Sympathy and appreciation doesn't stay a relationship without a spark. Well, stay happy for those who are still single and stay sweet for those who are in relationship. Bear in mind that love doesn't built in one day so never ever make a joke for your own relationship with some small matters thing. To know more, stay tuned with me, here's some update from me. love you guys.

WELL DONE PEOPLE.. !

While you are arguing and fighting with the one who you love, there are few couples who are fighting everyday just to meet the one who is somewhere far apart , even their talks are limited, not even a meet for few months- Distant love. Do you believe in distant love? I guess probably majority of the people couldn’t agree more that distant love doesn’t work out.

Long Distant art

The frustration that your emotional drives you crazy, the sense of craving for someone kill you, loneliness come after when the one you loved isn’t here for you and the sweetness memory that you had torture you everyday. The existence of this feeling prove you that how much importnat for the person, the eagerness you want her/him, the faith you put on your relationship and you believe that this process would make a happy ending.

Time is a challenge, ending is a misery, you wouldn’t know whether both of you could able to come along this, or, might not be. Soon later, you afraid the environment could change both of you, you afraid to lose her/him and the worried and illusion keep appearing on your mind are just annoying.

Time

The result for distant love which may turn out a good ending probably low. But think about it, how far you both have been going through? The bitterness and sweetness you both share is just a prove to show you how worthy you deserve this love.

Never let go your love because of some little small matter, I believe distant love can be come across once both of the candidates are holding the same faith. I could say love never been easy, the commitment for love is the key for you to survive. Stay no regret for your life, temptation is around, be a wise man. 

I am impressed by those couple who are from distant love, I would like to say: Good job, you guys did very well to stay your relationship and I know it is not going to be easy.

Together until the end of the day