Loving Yourself, Have You? =)

Dear imperfection,

He is on his way to be a better person. There is something imperfect- your weaknesses, have you been really talk with them, at least once? There's a mistake we made, but we overcome it and fix it, to make sure that the mistake wouldn't be happened again. There's a dream you want to strike, but it's still way too far for you, but have you been really hold on harder for your dream?

The way to communicate, how long you never been talking to yourself? Intrapersonal might be sounded weird, but, you know yourself better, compared the yesterday. Have you been really reflected yourself when you are working on your journey? Look to the mirror once, maybe you will know how long you never been really love yourself.

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Have to be thankful to your body that always be there for you. He tried to get yourself awake when you are working for your exam from the night to the morning. He reminds yourself to eat while always give you an alert that it's time to get a rest and take some foods.

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Try to love yourself more, he deserves more than everyone else. He's the one who always stand the front line with you. He's the one who always help you to fight together with the illness. Sometimes he is not perfect, but he always be there for you.

Imperfection, he's not an evil, but he is a tutor, to guide you to be a better person. Don't be afraid to fall but be afraid when you are not trying. As I always tell others, everything will be alright, miracle could happen once you hold on your faith. Be honest, there's always a miracle that happened in my life. We couldn't know how much should we paid for your future.

It is true that the world is realistic, outstanding only the way to get recognized from society nowadays? If you think it is, maybe it is. But on the other hand, you think it is not then it would be not. For me, a kind-heart person is much precious than those people who are trying to get all those spotlight.

To be or not to be, it's always a choice for you. That's no a specific answer for you to choose what you wanted to be. Faith and believe, that's the thing that make you become a better person. Imperfection, thanks for the existed, or else we will never know what's the mean for our life. Life, maybe just a long journey for you to be an either good person or perfect person. It's always on your hand.

"I know that we all think we're immortal, we're supposed to feel that way, we're graduating. The future is and should be bright, but, like our brief four years in high school, what makes life valuable is that it doesn't last forever, what makes it precious is that it ends. I know that now more than ever. And I say it today of all days to remind us that time is luck. So don't waste it living someone else's life, make yours count for something. Fight for what matters to you, no matter what. Because even if you fall short, what better way is there to live?"

The Amazing Spider-man 2

To be, or not to be?

女猪脚遇上了男猪脚，一场反反复复的爱情考验，成为他们爱情的见证。偶像剧总是那样地播映着。风风雨雨考验了一个人对爱的真挚，也考验了那人在TA心里是多么的重要。有时候很不侥幸的，你也许会成为爱的奴隶，或者更糟糕的，爱上一个不该爱的人，白话乃是第三者。

Few months ago, le boy met le girl. The first time ever when they chat to each other, le girl always act as an indifferent person. Le boy paid the full hearts for every conversation but le girl actually didn't really pay much attention on their conversation because she knew that she shouldn't to be more closer with le boy.

一次又一次地聊天，女孩开始欣赏男孩的单纯与善良，所以决定答应与男孩出来见个面，那时候的男孩是多么地开心，像是即将遇见自己心中的那个人莫名的紧张与快乐。第一次的见面反而男孩沉默了，女孩相反的特别地愉快。

Le boy doesn't know the first meet up with le girl should consider as a date or not, le boy was being the one who are overthinking now. The journey when le boy and le girl were inside the car was extremely awkward but still, they afford to find something common to talk about.

第一次的见面想说女孩累了也因女孩不是当地人，便到男孩家歇了一个晚上才回到自己的地方。那天晚上，男孩拥抱了女孩，并在那个夜晚对女孩告白了。女孩不做任何反应但却让男孩抱起了自己。

After few couple weeks, le girl started to have feeling towards le boy and they are even holding each other hand when they are going everywhere like they are the couple. Both of them are sweet and people are jealous with their sweetness.

问题出现了，只因女孩有了男友但却爱着男孩，感情问题也开始变得复杂。这时候的男孩迷茫了，是否决定和女孩在一起？还是下定决心地和女孩分开呢？身为女孩的你会为了男孩而割爱？还是选择一脚踏两船呢？

The story will be ended like this, there is all your option to choose what is going on for the next. I am sorry that I took up not much time for this post so perhaps, forgive my bad language and I hope you enjoy.

Stronger, Is The Only Choice?

Have you ever think about: "What's the matter that make you feel stronger?" "What's the reason that make you happy everyday?" Sometimes we don't mean to be perfect, but we just need to be more professional in some ways.

What if studying is part of your interest, what's the reason that makes you hate the assignments that much? We always like to say what if, have you ever think about if we keep saying what if, how about if you don't live out of your life? Then you will probably live with "if", you will never live with your life. I'd rather have a life of "oh wells" than a life of "what if's". 

Someone told me that the glass is not fragile, with super pack particles inside the glass until it's strong enough to stand a pressure. In hand, it's tough enough that makes the glass is so fragile, it can't be added any particles anymore, that's why it's easier to be broken. I would say that, tough people sometimes don't mean to be tough when they reach a certain situation.

Word, as sharp as a dagger, small but still, it's painful and hurt! Think about that, sometimes we can't control people to stop talking about you. Just a reminder, don't EVER tell anyone about your secret, sometimes it might be the most REGRETFUL things that might happened in your life.

Sometimes people like to laugh at your weaknesses, but they don't feel the sense of offended because sometimes people don't know how far you have been gone through from your life. They can be forgiven because they are not mean to be, they don't know what you are experiencing. 

Pardon a person who like to insult you, bear in mind that they are just make you a better person. Take the criticize that has been appeared in your life as a challenge to go far, insult as a sense of emotional control and last, remember everything that happened in life, I believe karma is still existed. Peace for your life, take anything to make you more stronger.

"Scar tissue is stronger than regular tissue. Realize the strength, move on." - Henry Rollins

梦想与现实 vs. 努力与代价

【梦想与现实篇】

爱你的人总会说，只要付出努力，梦想就会在于不远处。相反的，陌生人会告诉你，现实生活中需要付出的有时候不是努力，而是代价。何为代价？有时候我们所想的，跟现实的，其实都只在于一线之差。

羡慕是否暗喻着嫉妒？

坚强是否暗喻着逞强？

识时务是否暗喻着虚伪？

世上拥有许多的贝多芬，不畏惧自己的残缺，追求自己的梦想；世上拥有许多的宫崎骏，用艺术，画出自己的世界，带领别人去看自己从未发现的梦想；世上拥有许多才子，他们文武双全，受到世间的爱戴，用自己的才能去彩绘着自己的世界；世上拥有许多命在旦夕的苦命人，自幼品尝那苦中缠绕生命的药剂，善用每分每秒，追求自己的梦想。也许你从未发现过，身边其实出现过许多为梦想而努力的人。

你，是否拥有梦想？还记得小时候的我们，为了想救人而想当个伟大的医生，为了想保护国家想当个勇敢的国家军队，为了想受人瞩目想当个巨星，我们曾经都为了，而为了... 慢慢地我们组建了自己的梦想，随着年龄我们越来越接近我们的梦想。

有时候梦想其实并不难，别让现实世界影响了自己的心态。梦想迷失在于现实的时候，试着回想为何你坚持到了今天；想要放弃的时候，记得提醒自己其实离梦想已不远。梦想，是一个目标，是让自己活下去的原动力，是让自己开心的原因。

许多的问题，拥有不同的解答，一切最好的答案，只在于你如何看待自己的问题。

一个问题，拥有许多的答案，跟随着你的年龄，答案似乎会与你更加亲近。

.... 加油 ....

Inspire, and be inspired. And, inspire again

It's been a super busier life for the first day of the new semester, rushing something what I supposed to do, working something what I passionate for and looking something which is different in my life. I never thought I can do that much, the challenges have been accepted.

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To be honest, "misunderstood" lead me into one of the organization: AIESEC which brought a really big impact for my life. Life is not always that easier, perhaps I know that effort is the only thing that could make me a better person.

I am a person who keens to know and understand more, I like to take something new as challenge, fix my weaknesses and make it to one of the advantages. I have been lost and failed but it is good to learn from your mistake. AIESEC is always a good place for me to learn and fix my mistakes.

Oops, I should talk about the myLDS, which is a seminar for leadership development. For the inspiring section, I still remembered that our past MCP told us that: "Make as much mistakes as you can and learn from youe mistakes." This sentences have actually changed what I really think about my life.

Flashback moment, think back about your life, did you know how much efforts you paid to walk when you were a child? How many times you fall down and then you stand up again? There is no reason to stop you in doing something, but your mindset is the only thing that could always stop you from doing something.

Perhaps, I can be the one who are there to inspire people, I like to bring the positive impact to others, and I always wanted to be an inspiring people. I took the challenges, gain new experiences and fix my weaknesses, perhaps one day I have experiences enough to be there and inspire people around me.

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Maybe it took a year, or maybe a few years but do not stop yourself from what you wanted to do. Never ever think of giving up because you will never know how closer with your achievement. I like to share my life with people as well as I like to listen the experiences from the others.

Sincerely,
Me


"The most important thing is to try and inspire people so that they can be great in whatever they want to do."
- Kobe Bryant

Learn, from your mistake

Chinese New Year, an awesome celebration to get as much ang pau as you can and gather with all your cousins and I am the one who are prohibit to celebrate. According to the tradition, law had said that we should not celebrate the coming Chinese New Year if one of your grandparents had passed away for the very first year so it is happening to my family, my grandma had just passed away few months ago.

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The aim not to celebrate the Chinese New Year is showing a respect to your grandparents and it is reasonable. I do not blame for this whole boring day but instead that, I am actually missing my grandma. Yesterday was the lunar 31 which is the last day for last year and today is the new year. Family and I went back to my grandma's home like what we used to be every single week before my grandma had passed away.

I never saw my grandma's house locked once in my lifetime but now, this is the first time, the house is locked and maybe... the forever. Now, I feel I am a super bad ass that I am the only one who always claimed there is nothing for me, I am childish to claim my grandma's home as a village and claimed themselves as villagers.

I can't stand with all the dust due to my sensitive nose that might keep sneezing everytime when my family asked to overnight there. I can't stand with the super bad line connection that might lead me out of social network that make me feel insecure and I hate all those super crowded people inside a house, to be honest I always have antisocial personality disorder that might lead me not to talk with anyone.

But then, is this small little thing that would bother about? There is the problem that I always focus on the small little disadvantages rather than the general. The most important thing is that we gather, share the joyness and interact to know more each other but how much I did for that? Not much, I spent my whole life to hate, critic and complain, people always realize something right after something happened.

Be a greater person, don't be a childish person. Hating around the world does not make you feel better but just make you feel worse. Lesson learned, you can't going back to the past but moving forward is another way for you to be a better person.

Learn from mistake, improve yourself is the only way that might make you feel better from the past and, I do believe my grandma will feel proud of me. I miss you grandma. Perhaps, my experience would inspire you. Forgiven can be given if you try not to repeat the mistake, take your first step to change yourself.

"It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad."    

- C. S. Lewis

Pretty defined pretty,is that true?

Dear Pretty,

What you think about pretty? The inner heart you refer to, or the outside? Generally, people with nice looking defined as pretty, but is that the real definition for pretty? According to Oxford dictionary, it is an attractive in a delicate way without truly beautiful.

In fact, sometimes beauty is an icon for people, people might want to be them, or with them. In magazines or TV ad, you probably will see all those people with nice looking, they defined beauty, noble, temptation and confident. Some of them became our idol and K-pop I guess is a huge influence and iconic for "pretty" in Asia.Besides, some might have a thought for cosmetic surgery.

What's about the people who do not really define as nice looking? They do not deserve to be loved? They do not deserve live as a beauty? There is other fact that people who do not have nice looking have better friends than those people who have nice looking.

In psychological way, people tend to attract by beautiful thing, there is one of the reason why beauty have more friends than for those who are not. Generally, we can see beauty always surrounded with beauty, it is like a magnet field and the attraction will always be there when those magnet is coming out for dinner or even a meal.

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For my opinion, I strongly agree that there is never an ugly exists in our life. There is some thought you should change.Beauty, is actually only an attraction from the skin and it will be no longer there, the time would steal the beauty but a beautiful inner heart, will stay longer and stronger than the outside one.

God is fair, beautiful inside the heart probably have better friends than those who are not. It is right you think that you have lesser friends than those who have nice looking but in fact, did you know how much will stay longer? Much of the people be with them just for fame, there is a lot without the true heart.

I am here to tell those people who have low self-esteem, beautiful can't stay longer and it would be gone one day but beautiful inner heart will never ever be gone and it will grow more beautiful due to the time. Stop envy for those who you think they are better than us, we are actually live better than them. We are same, we live with different way and in fact beauty might feel envious for those who are not as well.

                                    People with simple smile is pretty. =)

Sincerely,
Me

“Nobody should be judged on their looks. Beauty is not found on the body but in the soul. The only thing the media has done is change the definition of the word. I mean being attractive may make it easier to catch some one but being kind and loving is how you keep some one. Also with make up its like putting on a mask some masks are creative and fun most others are just used to cover who you really are up. Be yourself.” 
― Danyon Guthrie-lewis